I recently applied for a job I was so confident in my ability for, all pieces were put in place, and everything seemed hopeful and prospects high, it is no wonder when I saw my rejection mail this morning I was rightfully surprised. You see I am not one to pride myself in optimism In fact, I would rather associate myself with the pessimistic side of the expectation radar, I try to keep a balance, just enough hope to carry on, enough will to thrive, but never too much to get complacent.